Norma Mika Prince

June 13, 1963 – February 19, 2023

Beloved Mother, Sister, Friend, and Colleague

Norma Lou Mika Prince, born as the 11th child of 13 to Margaret and Lucian Mika in Karnes City, Texas, was a devoted mother, daughter, sister, friend, mentor, and community member. Living most of her life in Colorado, she could often be found reading, hiking, and biking in the mountains of her rural home near Estes Park, spending time with her son Jason, or volunteering in various organizations surrounding LGBTQ+ activism and project management.

Norma was a lifelong curious learner and tinkerer, having graduated with a B.Sc. in Mechanical Engineering from the University of Texas at Austin and an M.Sc. in Computer Information Technology from Regis University, which led to an accomplished career in the hard drive and medical device industries. After many years as a mechanical engineer, she developed a deep passion for project management, and was proud to obtain her Project Management Professional (PMP) certification from the Project Management Institute. Her entrepreneurial pursuits include two companies built with her former husband, Marshall, in Georgetown, Texas: Mechanical Design Group Inc. and The Wood Place Fine Furniture, as well as designing and building two beautiful mountain homes together. She strongly supported and encouraged her son’s technical and business pursuits. Her favorite job of all showcased her exquisite creativity and sewing skills at a costume shop, Second Childhood, near UT Austin, and some of her most cherished memories were made as a waitress at the Green Diamond with her sisters in Karnes City.

Norma’s compassion, love, and expansive sense of humor were felt by everyone in her life. She enjoyed developing close relationships with her colleagues and was always willing to lend a friendly ear, demonstrating the care and attention she brought to everyone around her. She had many insights on how businesses that fully supported their employees could far exceed expectations through constructive collaboration, which she was developing into a book and curriculum that she hoped might foster healthier and happier workplace teams. When her son came out, she was committed to learning how to be a supportive mother. This passion found a new outlet while living in Utah, where she helped guide other parents of LGBTQ+ children with Mama Dragons and volunteered at the Encircle House, a safe place for queer youth. Her miraculous and self-driven, self-discovered recovery from a tragic stroke in January 2021 encouraged her to bring hope and awareness to many fellow stroke patients and doctors.

Norma loved to meet people from all over the world, and fondly recalled her travels outside the country. She enjoyed hosting guests from overseas and bringing people together with cookie baking parties and Easter Egg hunts. Shoveling snow always brought mountainous joy to her Texas heart, in addition to writing, journaling, crafting, dancing, camping, road tripping, decorating tea cakes, carving pumpkins, drinking iced tea, adventuring with the Mommy & Me crew, reading books to children (especially her son), and listening to all sorts of music (especially Willie Nelson).

She is survived by her son, Jason, and his partner, Mike; her former husband, Marshall; eight sisters and two brothers; five stepchildren; and numerous in-laws, nieces, nephews, and beloved friends. She was preceded in death by her parents, Lucian and Margaret, her sister Beverley, and her brother Leslie.

Norma will always be remembered by those around her as a beacon of genuine compassion and charisma, as someone always working on something new and exciting, and for her fiercely energetic spirit. Her last wishes were that everyone may share their peace and love with the world around them.

Condolences

You were a dear, sweet friend, Norma, and you had a profound impact on my life. I am so grateful for our time together, and for all that we shared. I do know that you are at peace, and that gives me great comfort. May you continue to rest in peace, and may that peace be shared by all who were fortunate enough to know you.
Chris DeGrandis
Friend
Norma was one of my first friends when I started my first full time job out of college. She was an incredible mentor, engineer, and most importantly, a great friend. I will miss the laughs we shared, treasure all you taught me, and wish your family all the love and support as they navigate this tough loss. Norma will be greatly missed.
Max Alfonso
Friend
I loved working with Norma at BD. She had a bright, caring personality and great leadership skills. Her strength, optimism, and determination after her stroke were inspirational to me. I am so grateful to have known Norma and find myself reflecting on her amazing demeanor and outlook on life when faced with personal struggles. My deepest condolences to her family and friends.
Jody German
Colleague
First,I am shocked and saddened by this news. I met Norma at Maxtor. She was the salt of the earth and had a gentle soul. Norma, Shirley, Joyce and I used to get together for dinners and a glass of wine. We would talk about the old Maxtor days and catch up on gossip if we had any. LOL. She was working at GE the last time we got together(after the 2013 floods) at her beautiful cabin in Allenspark. My deepest condolences to the family and Jason. She impacted so many anf in such a positive way. XOXO
Sue Burton
Colleague and friend
I was truly heartened when I heard Norma had sprung the mortal coil. Sadly, I hadn’t I seen or spoken to Norma in decades. I knew her sisters Evelyn, Dolores & Charlene much better, but Norma was always present: a budding Mika. The Mikas (specifically Lucien’s family & the more specifically his daughters I mentioned above, were legend in my family. I exploits in HS and during a few years during college, were rabidly fun. Everyone knew the Mikas & just by virtue of having the same last name, we automatically meant they were hard working, dedicated, brilliant, bold as hell & even back in the day, all born with an innate worldliness without ever having stepped foot out of South Karnes City. All of them unique. Norma, I say to you, I regret only knowing you within the limitations that I did. I feel certain I got the short straw on that, but even so, I know without a doubt, you made a difference in this world. How could you not? You’re a Mika—and always will be. Peace, LK
Laurie Kendrick
Both from Karnes City, TX
Although Norma was five years younger than me, I have always felt she had a much better grasp of life and how to fully embrace it than I did (even as young kids growing up). Over the years, she and I shared a lot of stories, laughs and good times together – while we both lived in Austin and most recently when we would coordinate our travels to family gatherings. Norma was a very caring person and always made sure to help out whenever anyone needed assistance. We miss you Norma!
Dolores Mika LaVelle
Sister
The world grew a little dimmer when we lost you and your beautiful light.
Rest in peace.
Greg and Linda
High school classmates
Being only one year older, Norma had a huge influence on my growing up years--her attitudes, her tastes, her sense of humor. I will miss her directness, her wit and her "dream killer" ability to keep me on track with my creative projects.
Stephanie
Sister
Norma and I shared a lot of good memories through the years as roommates, mothers, sisters, and coworkers. I will truly miss her and her unique perspective on the world. May she forever rest in peace.
Charlene Dailey
Sister

Memories

Norma Lou, my dearest American friend... When we first met in 1979, you introduced me and Olga to the Texan way of life and to your great family. On Saturday night you took us to the dance hall at Panna Maria. We had so much fun, shared so many precious memories. We kept in touch and you came to Germany several times to see me and my family. In 2009 we had the chance to spend some time with you, Marshall and Jason at your beautiful home in Colorado. I am so grateful for the time we had together. We miss you so much.
Sonja & Peter
Friends
Taken from the ridge on the opposite side of the valley from our homes.
Norma was a good friend. Always easy to talk to, interesting and knowledgeable about so many things. I really enjoyed hiking with Norma where we discussed any and everything and solved all of the world's problems. She was adventurous and took me off trail to climb the ridge across the valley from our homes, a spot we had looked at from afar for years.
Tommye M Barnett
Friend/Neighbor
Norma and I in 1979 as the Old Hag and Old Woman in the UIL One Act Play called "The Magic Well" at KCHS.

Norma was the first person to befriend me at Karnes City High School on the first day of our freshman year. I was new to the school and the area. I didn't know anyone, and was very nervous. She was so kind - she came right up and introduced herself, asking if I was new. From that moment on, she made me a part of her massive group of friends. To this day, the classmates of KC High School still include me in their lives and reunions even though I moved away 2 years after meeting them. They are some of my favorite people on this planet, and I have Norma to thank for knowing them. I will always love her for that.
Sheryl Sekula Williams
Friend from Karnes City High School
My mom, Dolores, is Norma's sister and whenever the three of us were together my mom always called me Norma and her Lauren. We have no idea why, something in my mom's brain must have closely related the two of us. Norma and I got used to going by each other's name when we were all together. Sometimes my mom would send me texts she meant for Norma and vice versa so we would forward each other the text saying "I think this was meant for you". I look forward to carrying on Norma's memory at family gatherings because I am sure when I am around the Mika's my mom will still call me Norma.
Lauren Fiore
Niece
Social distance hiking during Covid.
Tommye M Barnett
Friend/Neighbor
Knocked on the door to ask if we could take class favorite pictures in front of their house…no answer so I crawled up and as we were taking pics they answered the door.

We were all a 1st thru 12th grade family. I got to know the whole Mika tribe, except a few of the older siblings which I always felt I knew through Norma Lou. I won’t even go into the trouble we got in or narrowly escaped….. but the girl almost kept us from getting our diplomas 🤣🤣🤣…. I love you Norma Lou!!!
Danny Witte
Lifelong friend
Gone way too soon.
Cathie Griffin
Green Diamond “Sister”
Norma in Lafayette Louisiana enjoying a crawfish feed with her mother Margaret, sisters Dolores and Beverley and some dude who worked with Beverley.
Dolores Mika LaVelle
Sister
Norma with her Princess Di Eye! 1981
Dolores Mika LaVelle
Sister
Sharing our birthdays while in Austin!
Noemi Herrera Wyatt
Life Long friends from Karnes City and went to UT together
Dorm fun at UT!
Noemi Herrera Wyatt
Life Long friends from Karnes City and went to UT together
Go Horns!! Another Bday celebration!
Noemi Herrera Wyatt
Life Long friends from Karnes City and went to UT together
Dear Norma, a bunch of good memories come to my mind... first, in Texas and then, in Spain and Germany… recalling a lot of laughter and also deep conversations about our lives, feelings , experiences and hopes. You were Sonja and me’s best friend in Texas, with your open-minded and fun personality, you were always there to make us feel welcome in KC. Our friendship grew stronger. We kept writing letters . Some of those good memories and photos: your first visit to Madrid back in 1982 was unforgettable. You fitted perfectly with my family and friends. It was easy to feel you as one member of the family. We had a blast together … Madrid was holding the Soccer Word Cup that summer and there were a lot of cultural events in Madrid at that time that we enjoyed. One of those events was the Rolling Stones in concert. You couldn’t believe that you had to come and visit Madrid to see the Rolling Stones. It was an amazing concert that started with Mick Jagger singing "Under my thumb" under a heavy thunderstorm... but we didn't mind getting wet. We were so excited! My friends loved you and you belonged here as one of us. On your second visit, after spending some time in Madrid with friends and family, we made it on a sleeper train to Manheim, Germany to visit Sonja and Peter. We traveled Madrid _Paris at night , sleeping on the train, and planned a 12-hour stopover in Paris before taking the next train to Germany. We spent the day visiting all the landmarks. I remember we were so tired after spending the day walking from one place to another that, unintentionally, we couldn’t help taking a short nap on the floor in the square in front of the Pompidou Centre ;), a square full of young people playing music and having conversations. We found it so funny when we woke up... Then, our visit with Sonja and Peter was wonderful. They opened their house and were amazing to us. What’s more, we could experience being the three of us together again. I will always treasure these wonderful memories in my heart and many more!! You are a part of my life. Love you, Normita.
Olga Paniagua
Friend
When Norma came to visit our common Spanish friend Olga, I got to know her and showed her around the lively Madrid of the 80's. We had such a great time together. Once we were serenaded by a band of college students, a custom of the time. The picture shows the moment when the musicians came up after singing for us in the street.
We cherish those days spent with Norma, when we were all young and happy.
Henar Marchesi
Friend from Spain
Norma 1992
Evelyn Mika
Sister
Norma being Norma
Evelyn Mika
Sister
Sisters Germaine, Norma and Stephanie 1987
Charlene Dailey
Sister
When we were in high school, we worked at a local restaurant. One Saturday afternoon, we saw one of our least favorite customers drive up. As he was making his way into the restaurant, Norma and I were discussing which of us was going to “get stuck” waiting on him. Much to our dismay, he walked in and sat with a man who had overheard our entire conversation. We looked at each other with an “oh, crap” look. After the least favorite customer left, the man he joined laughed and said that not many people liked that guy. We laughed about that incident for many years. I don’t remember which one of us "got stuck" waiting on him.
Evelyn Mika
Sister
Fun at the Green Diamond!
(Norma, Stephanie, and Germaine)

I could fill pages with memories, but here is one of my favorite photos. This picture truly is worth a thousand words. We had great times at the Green Diamond throughout our teen (and pre-teen) years.
Germaine Ewen
Sister
Norma loved doing new things. Here she is changing the oil in her truck. 1985
Charlene Dailey
Sister
Norma working on her truck

When we lived in Austin, Norma and I spent many afternoons together working on cars and trucks.
Charlene Dailey
Sister
That Norma, always into something.
7 years old
Charlene Dailey
Sister
Norma helping her mom with dinner. 1984
Charlene Dailey
Sister

DONATIONS

Norma was a passionate supporter of LGBTQ+ youth and their families.  She spent many hours volunteering for these two organizations. Norma requested that in lieu of flowers, donations in her honor be made to one of these organizations.

Mama Dragons is a non-profit organization of 9,000 mothers whose  mission is to support, educate, and empower mothers of LGBTQ+ children.

Please specify ‘Norma Prince’ in the Comment section when donating to Mama Dragons.

Encircle is a non-profit organization serving 60,000 persons per year with the goal of bringing together families and communities to enable LGBTQ+ youth to thrive.

Click the button to donate directly to Norma’s fundraiser.

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